How To Prepare for Marriage

Love brings two souls together. Marriage is an act of love. Marriage brings many families on one platform. Marriages are a customary tradition prolonging for years.Why marry? Questions are left for the reader.Time changes so does habits. As a result marriage styles tend to differ over time. Marriage has many rituals in any religion.

Lets focus on marriages in India. Marriages in India is a way to not only bring two strangers but also their families together. Marriages in India however, go through intense traditional rites and rules for maintaining a healthy relationship.Marriages differ from religion to religion. Tradition speaks of itself. There are more than a hundred traditional style of marriage across the globe. In India, a mixture of dialects and culture marriage is of course an occasion to rejoice. Marriage, as termed is highly appreciated at all locations. Places change so does marriage rituals change.
Not going to the details of How marriage is, lets focus on how does marriage affect a persons life. A person after acquiring the age of maturity is suitable for marriage. Some preparations for the marriage can be listed before the auspicious event. We all know our friends well, but do we really know our would be? Never, so know your partner better.
We expect a person to be certain when we best know of him/her. Therefore, not on all occasions we may be certain, but don't expect what to know what to expect at all times. In marriage we have to expect the unexpected as it is shares for a lifetime. Many people tend to marry when the occasion arises, but do we really get along. May not at all times.
Considering the number of divorce cases, matter of conflict may be petty but we can never read emotions of others on faces. Such uncertain emotions may lead to the unexpected. That would be divorce. So before committing to your partner, ensure that such situations don't arise. Aggressiveness is not approved everywhere. When it comes to marriage, we become too possessive about our spouses.Here aggressiveness creeps in making our life miserable.Aggressive behavior may not lead us to maintain a healthy and fruitful relation with our spouses.
Marriages as said above is a gift for parents. But at the same time, it is a hard obstacle for them. Marriages cost more than what we expect. Financially strong families may afford marriage with pomp and fame. What about those who are financially poor?These families are never left with a plan for money. Hence, Marriage can be a burden for parents. Considering all the money part, families have to save for years to pass for their children. Lets suppose those who can afford marriage rituals bounded by finance, do their marriage ever be evergreen.? A question left for the couples before and after marriage.
                                      Marriage rites can never be discarded, however, it would have been better if the rituals don't suppress the minds of families and couples getting married. Marriage callsf or commitment and adjustments. Adjustments and commitment to the partner would lead to a healthy offspring for that future of that family. Where there are adjustments and loyalty there marriage is successful.!Henceforth, adjustment is vital for all getting married and the best tip for all married couples.
To cut short marriage, bound by adjustments always lead to a successful life ahead.So enjoy the joy of getting married and adjust well to make your life and wife fruitful.

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MARRIAGES BOUND BY FRIENDSHIP

How wonderful to get married to one’s best friend? Answers can be quite interesting! Puzzled as I was, my friend inspired me to write a short write up for his wedding. I was thinking what to gift him for remembering this wonderful event. By constant persuasion, he made me write a short write up about the event. As it is, I happen to be a professional photographer of ATHAM Wedding Hub. However, it was by chance that I attended his wedding.

Recalling the event, I saw the bride looking up towards the sky as if for a surprise gift from heaven. She was dressed in traditional attire for performing the rituals before the marriage at the temple. After seeking abundant graces from above, she went to her friend’s house.

 The lady greeted her friend with a cheer on her face. She was helped by her friend in the dressing room as an old custom. They had a hug of love kindled by deep friendship. Later on, the bride was accompanied by her close family members for the wedding ceremony. 

After the traditional rites, couples garlanded each other for a lifetime bond. Happiness spread around like a sweet smell of jasmine flowers, bringing smiles on all her well-wishers and relatives.

All who were present greeted the newly-wed couple with gifts and blessings. Traditional rituals full of love and blessings filled them with smiles. The smiling photographs of the couple were clicked by professional photographers present at the temple premises for a wedding album. 

 The couples performed the rituals in traditional style to please their gods by wearing a garland of green flowers. 

While the couples were being greeted by all, the rose bouquets waited for their turn. Hungry as they were, the guests rushed for a mouth-watering meal. The meal prepared was according to the customary Hindu tradition with a variety of vegetarian delicacies. 

 The dishes were also followed by a glass of sweet porridge for all to enjoy. All these events were celebrated at a well decorated stage especially for the event. The red curtains with golden rings swirled around conveying the wonderful message of love to one and all. Wishing the best, the guests bid goodbye to the newlywed couple.

Lastly, as a way of bidding farewell, the bride’s mother placed on her head a glittering tiara of jewels to remind her of her own wedding. I, on behalf of all and ATHAM Wedding Hub greeted the newlywed with choicest blessings, wishing them a happy married life ahead.