How To Select Perfect Dates For Your Wedding

Wedding dates essential for happening weddings. Dates selection can seem easy however, its not that easy as it sounds. Seasons of religious occasions and climatic events often coincide with date selection of weddings. Thinking of which season would be most ideal for selecting perfect dates for the weddings could be a question.puzzled. Yes I too was confused. But let's think of a possible solution for the massive question.

Deciding in which season to marry would be the first question. Whether the dates clash with other dates of the season for the wedding. We can undergo in detail for the wedding seasons later on in this article. Next we need to decide which day of the week falls for? Later , how long should your engagement should be? There are many phases involved in selection of dates for a perfect wedding date.

Let's look deep and find instances where the dates would not clash with your date.Some of the points that could be noted and followed when you choose a perfect date for our dates with your beloved are :

• Considering the Seasons of the Time.---On the wedding eve, you can bring flowers of a variety to bring beauty and lushness to the coziness of the wedding. Summers could be the best for a wedding tonight. Spring a festive mood for rebirth and renewal is the perfect time for an adventure with marriages to begin. When is the possible time to get married even if the wedding seasons comply.? Once you find the seasons suitable, that's the ripe time for weddings. Once the date has been fixed and found suitable the location needs to be reached for. If there are Christian weddings then the wedding definitely has to take place in the church. Else it would happen in either a mosque, or even in temples or other religious institutions where marriages are permitted.
  
  
  

• Wedding Apparels.--- Most dresses are worn according to the seasons or climatic conditions. You can run through a catalog of wedding dresses or apparels for selecting the right dress for the right occasion. Depending also on the selection of the dress you may also need to see if the dress fits your body. Wedding portals or magazines provide a plethora of choices to choose from the wedding dresses made available for all. Ladies dresses need a definite difference. Hence any dress that suits their body structure would look pretty and enchanting. For men, it may be suitable to wear dresses that match with their body fitness. See-through/transparent dresses showing off the body parts are not recommended and suitable.

• Inauspicious dates to Avoid---wedding dates are to be ensured that it does not follow on dates such as Christmas, Thanksgiving,Memorial days and on other holidays. Some myths which people do consider for not organizing a wedding would be 13th Friday, March 15th , September 11th and Daylight Savings Days. Religious Observances should certainly be avoided. If all have any days in mind to fix but are not sure where with that would be feasible or not, then please check the luckiest days calendar.

After consideration of the all the above ideas, it is mandatory for all couples to adopt wedding styles, wedding apparels and dates to fix your wedding. Next in the list would be to either hire a car or rent a car or even borrow a car. Hiring cars would be quite expensive.

Hence forth, the wedding car could be driven self or by a kin of yours.That would certainly save the expense. The food plays an important role in all weddings. All food caterers should be definite in providing food at the occasion enough for all to relish on.Thus friends, we wish all newly wedded and this getting married to ponder on these tactics and promote the wedding to be a happening wedding for you.
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Tips on Guests Seating During Wedding Reception

Wedding Occasions normally sprouts only once in life.Wedding without any well wishers or the warmth of guests would be a futile effort and waste of capital.Their presence is always appreciated and sought for any occasion. They are witnesses of an occasion to certify that we are all happy and consent with the events happening.

If any objections or in-differences appear they are figured out only by guests or your well wishers. A clap cannot be executed by one hand but two hands. Similarly,occasions without guests presence is void of praises and justification of the event. Wedding invitees or those invited are like God sent people to grace the event. Expenses may be making wallets or purses empty for the event as we never know the actual amount of money spent for the occasion.

Arranging Buffets for all guests could be quite daunting. Buffets are normally arranged as per the requirement and number of invitees for the auspicious event. Seats/Benches/ Tables are vital for any occasion. Limited number of chairs/tables/benches could lead to spectators laughing at or criticizing you. The number of chairs/benches/seats should be available in surplus to avoid hilarious situations.

It is recommended to make or prepare a list of all your guests and those invited for the occasion. An accurate list would make you more confident and self esteem to boost on the occasion. Tick of the wanted guests or those whom you want to attend according to the events prominence. If the list has been prepared, the next step would be to ring each invitee and confirm their presence and presence to be assured of their presence. Place a question mark for those whom you could not reach to or were having a busy ring tone. Cross out those who have informed that they would not attend and those whose mobiles are switched off.

Now count the number of guests who have confirmed for the occasion. The next ladder to cross would be to count the number of benches/chairs/seats available with you. If there are a few numbers of benches, then order for more chairs/benches to be assured of the guests priority. It is requested to pay the exact amount or cash in advance for the chairs in working order. Be sure of all chairs brought and count them leaving aside the broken chairs while being delivered or in transit.

The tables once counted now need to be placed in an appealing manner to attract more guests invited. Plan early for the arrangement of chairs/tables as per the nature of the event. Place the benches facing each other so as to seat maximum couples/newlywed face to face. Now the mouth-watering section falls. Place a buffet according to the arranged tables/chairs/benches.

The game intends to snatch or grab your partner according to his/her proposals met. The game should be applicable for young couples and newly weds. Present a hearty welcome message to all your well wishers and those who blessed the event. Now for the delicacies pick.There should be enough table rolls to keep the benches/ tables clean and tidy. Keep some napkins ready for the event to wipe off any dirt or left over split,on your apparel. Keep the tables clean and drop the waste in the trash can.

So friends, plan the event and organize as per the occasion. Never miss out on the tips to make your wedding a grand one. Arrange food as a buffet assuring that all had enough to eat and was a mouth watering experience. Keep all the chairs/benches neat and clean for the next set of guests to be seated for a hearty meal. Enjoy your wedding with maximum guests keeping these points in mind.

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THRISSUR POORAM

Pooram a festival or a phrase? Hey, Let me read on.. Thrissur Pooram unites all malayalees on one platform. A popular temple festival of all Keralites. Celebrated with pomp and fame,Thrissur pooram, is mainly held at the Vadakkunnathan Temple located in the heart of the district -- Thrissur. Pooram pronounced as Pu--ram of the Malayalam calendar on the day, forecast as “MEDAM”. Religious differences all disappear at the eve of the festive season.

Why celebrate Thrissur Pooram? The eve displays traditional rituals passed over from ancestors to the new generation. Thrissur Pooram, was devised first by Raja Rama Varma a noted king or maharaja of the time. It(ThrissurPooram), is the largest temple festival eve of all citizens especially in Kerala. Initially organised as a one day festival at Aarattupuzha temple was duly celebrated at the temple premises. This festival brings out the genuine participation and healthy competitions among all the participating temples on the festive eve.

Why do citizens of Thrissur celebrate Pooram with such pomp? A probable answer can be retold by a brief legend behind the festive. On one auspicious day of an incessant rain, the troops were late for the Aarattupuzha Pooram and being late, they were denied access to the prestigious festive procession. At this embarrasing moment of denial, all devotees went to the Sakthan Thampuran(as mentioned a noted king of the time) to recite the story which was then traditionally followed uptill today.

A brief about the Thrissur temples!!--Way back in 1798, all the temples were unified by the great king Sakthan Tampuran where he had all the ten prominent temples combined into one. This event, later on brought all temples to celebrate the grand eve with a mass celebration.As the day of the festive season drew near,he(ie. Sakthan Tampuran) invited all temple priests to pay their obeisance to Lord Vadakkunnathan, the presiding deity of the Vadakkunnathan temple. To enable feasible access and easier festivity, he ordained the two temples into two categories namely–Western Group and Eastern Group. A prominent temple titled as Thiruvambadi Sri Krishna Temple would include locations as Kanimanglam,Laloor,Ayyanthole and Nethilakkvau.

                                                                            The latter group- Eastern Group captioned as Paramekkavu Bagavathi Temple, comprise Paramekkavu temple, Karamukku, Chembukavu, Choorakottukavu and Panamukkamppilly. All the temples are centered around the Vadakkunnathan Temple while paying tributes to Lord Shiva( the presiding deity).

All functions are belived to have been chalked down by appropriate programmable events of the Thrissur Pooram festival by the famous king of Thrissur – Sakthan Thampuran. The main and major participants of the eve are Paramekkavu Bagavathi Temple, and Thiruvamabadi Sri Krishna Temple. Parmakkavu Temple situated at the Thrissur Swaraj Round and the Thiruvamabadi temple at Shornuir road are roughly 500 meters apart. What else do they do on the eve? The Pooram celebration begins a week before the main Pooram( festival). The grand season is marked by the hoisting of the ceremonial flag by participating temples.

Next the turn of Fire crackers. The first round of crackers burst known as Sample Vedikattu happens on the fourth day after the flag hoisting of then Pooram. This is a one hour show by Thiruvamabadi and Paramekkavu Devaswoms.All crackers are burst at the Swaraj Round and is started at 7.15 pm during the dusk. Varsity of innovative patterns and fireworks display are shown with pomp and grand. Where do the elephants come? To attract more visitors, elephants adorned by decroative a decorative piece called Nettipattam. These elephants are then marched on by all for attractive audience.

                                                                                The main Pooram begins now after the flag hoisting on the sixth day after the ceremonial flag hoisting. All temples devotees march and dispaly the order according to the groups formulated above. The main cracking of fireworks is scheduled to take place on at around 3.00 am early morning and ends at 6.00. Finally, the seventh day arrives and here the farewell ceremony is scheduled. Nevetheless, Thrissur Pooram is considered to be the greatest gathering in Asia and is the main festive ground of the nation ( India). This Pooram definitely brings the beauty and tradtions of our ancestors to the front.

Thus to feel the main Pooram in Thrissur , make a visit and enjoy the ecstacy of the eve in the heart of Kerala, that is Thrissur. All festivals are the base for hospitality and a chance to explore the rich heritage of India. ATHAM Wedding Hub wishes all readers happy visit for Thrissur Pooram.

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HOW TO SELECT A WEDDING DRESS

Wedding Apparel? Do I need to get wed? Congrats for the wedding!!! Wedding expenses apart from attires are quite expensive. Yet, a wedding dress could cost you more? Questions and so more may be answered in this article if read.

Apart from the wedding arrangements, we all focus on what we wear for the wedding night. Ladies have no time building on their facials for an attractive look and men enchant the groom for a possible proposal. Lets' talk about how wedding apparels play a vital role in our eve of marriage.

Research on new designs always calls for attraction. After a detailed examination of our glanced dresses, we finalize on what we would be wearing for the grand day. Coming to the bridal attire would drive our minds crazy. However, lets tune our minds as how women would wear and how that dress breaks the enchantment of many. Women dress with grace. To talk about that lets dig deep into the basics of a dressing sense of ladies. Ladies have long gowns adorned with floral patterns of designs with a strap for the dress. Ball gowns have stitched skirts to look beautiful and pretty.

Next comes the designs unmounted for us to look on. There are skirts with an A-shaped bodice with skirt to flaunt the design. Sheaths worn by women display balanced figures quite enough to enchant the groom. Fabrics twisted with waist gowns that fall from the chest of the lady.These dresses attires now calls for a snap by the video graph er for refinements. The dresses embroidered with comfortable fabric of high quality is knitted and gifted for the bride to wear. According to the circumstances, ceremonies drive us crazy. Even dresses play a role in determining marriage. Formal ceremonial rites are carried out to display all nicely dressed grooms and brides for the occasion. Climatic Conditions do play a part.

In extreme winters, a thin knitted fabric would not help, therefore, a heavy woolen fabric would be knitted to protect from the chilling cold. Likewise if a beach side wedding, a thin knitted fabric would do the task. While all marriages may not be conducted on beaches or in chilling climates, traditional ceremonies are conducted using cotton fabrics.Women may wear a white attire and men a black suit with a white collared shirt underneath. These dressings may cost you more, however for a privileged marriage these are utmost necessary. Range of the dresses vary nowadays with a plethora of dresses to select from.

Dressing accompanied with a mode of travel would well serve the task of performing rituals on time.Rented or self owned cars driven by self or chauffeurs would be an added expense. Dressing attires come in a variety of dresses. All dresses are either stitched or are ready made garments woven with perfection for a wonderful wedding eve. All vendors / shop owners display a different mode of selection for emptying your wallets. Nevertheless, emptying your wallets for your marriage could lead to an endless situation. However, may god forbid that day never comes. Dressings accompanied by good body language represent a hearty feeling and enjoyment.

No matter which dress you wear, smiles are the best mode of communicating others with love. Love leaves all leaves unfolded and all bricks upturned. Therefore love yourself and your beloved for a wonderful life ahead.

How To Prepare for Marriage

Love brings two souls together. Marriage is an act of love. Marriage brings many families on one platform. Marriages are a customary tradition prolonging for years.Why marry? Questions are left for the reader.Time changes so does habits. As a result marriage styles tend to differ over time. Marriage has many rituals in any religion.

Lets focus on marriages in India. Marriages in India is a way to not only bring two strangers but also their families together. Marriages in India however, go through intense traditional rites and rules for maintaining a healthy relationship.Marriages differ from religion to religion. Tradition speaks of itself. There are more than a hundred traditional style of marriage across the globe. In India, a mixture of dialects and culture marriage is of course an occasion to rejoice. Marriage, as termed is highly appreciated at all locations. Places change so does marriage rituals change.
Not going to the details of How marriage is, lets focus on how does marriage affect a persons life. A person after acquiring the age of maturity is suitable for marriage. Some preparations for the marriage can be listed before the auspicious event. We all know our friends well, but do we really know our would be? Never, so know your partner better.
We expect a person to be certain when we best know of him/her. Therefore, not on all occasions we may be certain, but don't expect what to know what to expect at all times. In marriage we have to expect the unexpected as it is shares for a lifetime. Many people tend to marry when the occasion arises, but do we really get along. May not at all times.
Considering the number of divorce cases, matter of conflict may be petty but we can never read emotions of others on faces. Such uncertain emotions may lead to the unexpected. That would be divorce. So before committing to your partner, ensure that such situations don't arise. Aggressiveness is not approved everywhere. When it comes to marriage, we become too possessive about our spouses.Here aggressiveness creeps in making our life miserable.Aggressive behavior may not lead us to maintain a healthy and fruitful relation with our spouses.
Marriages as said above is a gift for parents. But at the same time, it is a hard obstacle for them. Marriages cost more than what we expect. Financially strong families may afford marriage with pomp and fame. What about those who are financially poor?These families are never left with a plan for money. Hence, Marriage can be a burden for parents. Considering all the money part, families have to save for years to pass for their children. Lets suppose those who can afford marriage rituals bounded by finance, do their marriage ever be evergreen.? A question left for the couples before and after marriage.
                                      Marriage rites can never be discarded, however, it would have been better if the rituals don't suppress the minds of families and couples getting married. Marriage callsf or commitment and adjustments. Adjustments and commitment to the partner would lead to a healthy offspring for that future of that family. Where there are adjustments and loyalty there marriage is successful.!Henceforth, adjustment is vital for all getting married and the best tip for all married couples.
To cut short marriage, bound by adjustments always lead to a successful life ahead.So enjoy the joy of getting married and adjust well to make your life and wife fruitful.

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MARRIAGES BOUND BY FRIENDSHIP

How wonderful to get married to one’s best friend? Answers can be quite interesting! Puzzled as I was, my friend inspired me to write a short write up for his wedding. I was thinking what to gift him for remembering this wonderful event. By constant persuasion, he made me write a short write up about the event. As it is, I happen to be a professional photographer of ATHAM Wedding Hub. However, it was by chance that I attended his wedding.

Recalling the event, I saw the bride looking up towards the sky as if for a surprise gift from heaven. She was dressed in traditional attire for performing the rituals before the marriage at the temple. After seeking abundant graces from above, she went to her friend’s house.

 The lady greeted her friend with a cheer on her face. She was helped by her friend in the dressing room as an old custom. They had a hug of love kindled by deep friendship. Later on, the bride was accompanied by her close family members for the wedding ceremony. 

After the traditional rites, couples garlanded each other for a lifetime bond. Happiness spread around like a sweet smell of jasmine flowers, bringing smiles on all her well-wishers and relatives.

All who were present greeted the newly-wed couple with gifts and blessings. Traditional rituals full of love and blessings filled them with smiles. The smiling photographs of the couple were clicked by professional photographers present at the temple premises for a wedding album. 

 The couples performed the rituals in traditional style to please their gods by wearing a garland of green flowers. 

While the couples were being greeted by all, the rose bouquets waited for their turn. Hungry as they were, the guests rushed for a mouth-watering meal. The meal prepared was according to the customary Hindu tradition with a variety of vegetarian delicacies. 

 The dishes were also followed by a glass of sweet porridge for all to enjoy. All these events were celebrated at a well decorated stage especially for the event. The red curtains with golden rings swirled around conveying the wonderful message of love to one and all. Wishing the best, the guests bid goodbye to the newlywed couple.

Lastly, as a way of bidding farewell, the bride’s mother placed on her head a glittering tiara of jewels to remind her of her own wedding. I, on behalf of all and ATHAM Wedding Hub greeted the newlywed with choicest blessings, wishing them a happy married life ahead.